Gay Marriage

So we just got the ruling that it is unconstitutional to require that marriage be defined as a union between a man and a woman.  Which everyone says is the stepping stone to making it legal.  California will be the second state to allow gay marriage.  I'm not really sure how I feel about that.  I feel strangely torn.  Since as a Christian I believe that homosexuality is wrong, but I do believe in equal rights for all US Citizens.  So this leaves me in a strange predicament.  Maybe I don't really care one way or the other.  It really doesn't effect me or my life.  But I wonder if this is just me being desensitized to the sliding of our societies morals?